Mother Hides The Truth From Young Daughter About Restraining Order Against Father

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    Font - r/AmItheAsshole · Posted by u/kayce-lee 8 hours ago WIBTA for telling my 7 year the reason why me and her dad divorced?
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    Font - My daughter F7 has been asking a lot of questions about her dad which is aka my ex husband. She still sees her dad via visitation that is supervised by her
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    Font - grandparents ( aka ex mother in law and father in law) and lately I noticed she's been talking about him a lot in a positive way and which I'm glad...I picked her up from spending the weekend with her grandparents..she was happy and telling me all the fun things she did with him.
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    Font - Then she asked me if he can come to her thanksgiving play Wednesday. I then told her no and I just told her it's to soon and that he probably can't take off work. ( the actual reason is I have a restraining order against
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    Font - him just look at my post history for the actual details). She then told me he told her that he can come it's just up to me. Which is different story because that freaking pissed me off. So now I'm looking like the one that is preventing him from coming
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    Font - which he knows exactly why he can't come. So I just tried to explain that daddy just really hurt mommy and I'm still sad about it. She then tells me,that daddy is nice now and that I should be forgiving. I then told her just somethings are unforgivable, she starts crying..
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    Font - I just feel freaking horrible, I tried to come up with a solution and say I can stay home and her dad can go and I can watch on FaceTime and it just made her more upset. So I then called my sister and told her about the Situation and she believes it
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    Font - might be time to tell her the truth.but I just think I shouldn't because if my ex is actually going to parenting classes, anger management and therapy. Then he should try to get a relationship with our kids. So would I be an asshole to tell my daughter the truth about her dad?
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    Font - NTA. Sit your kid down and tell her the truth before the Father says any more.
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    Font - DragonCelica · 3h Parental Alienation 101 seems to be the only parenting class the ex is taking right now 65 Reply

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